VUSH Luna Rechargeable Wearable Vibrator

“With permission, you can allow your lover to connect to your toy from anywhere in the world,” she says. Jess O’Reilly, PhD, a Toronto-based sexologist, says remote control sex toys are some of the most versatile vibrators on the market for their ability to facilitate playfulness. “Not only does a remote control vibe allow you to weave eroticism throughout your day, but it often inspires you to flirt, tease, build anticipation, and be more creative,” she says.

“They are designed to go in your butt and stay in your butt,” Wright says. This creates a feeling of fullness while leaving your hands free for other activities. Meanwhile, anal beads are meant to move in and out of your butt, massaging all of the nerves you have down there, she adds. Some anal toys also vibrate, notes psychotherapist Joy Berkheimer, PhD, LMFT, an expert at SXWA, a sexual wellness award platform, which can feel even better. Smile Maker’s Ballerina is designed to wrap your entire vulva in a hug of rumbly vibrations. It’s curved to match the shape of your body, which means you can use the toy hands-free when you’re lying on your back.

Introducing the best sex toys to bring into the bedroom this year… The best rabbits are also flexible , allowing them to hit the right spots regardless of how big or small the distance between your vagina and clitoris might be. I’m only one person, so you can’t know for sure that a rabbit which works for me will work for you, too, which is why I also reached out to several experts and asked about their favorites. Our final list ended up being everything ranging from from beginner-friendly rabbit vibes to complex, feature-packed ones. Marie also points out that some rabbit vibes address this problem by giving the clitoral arm a lot of flexibility, so it can stretch or bend to hit your clit no matter where it’s located in relation to your vaginal opening.

With a simple push of a button, your partner can send you pleasure from across the country (or even around the world). Both apps allow for long-distance control with your partner’s phone, so you can play together even when you’re apart. The adjustable height and angle designs allow for the perfect position every time, plus it’s Vac-U-Lock compatible with all of your favorite attachments. This way, you can pilot your own ship or hand over the reins to your partner and let them have control.

Own your journey, embrace your power, and indulge in self-care like never before. The We-Vibe Rave 2 is app-controlled, which means you — and mostly importantly, your partner — controls the fun from a smart device. It has 10 built-in modes, but with the app you can custom the vibration patterns and control the device from anywhere. Perfect if one of you is away but you want to keep the bedroom fun going. Adding to that discreet factor is the Supersex’s ultra-quiet yet powerful vibration, and a compact frame that’s fully waterproof for fun shower play. There’s no one-size-fits-all beginner vibrator, because vibrators do all kinds of different things and all of our tastes are different.

The starfish-style shape and texture of this toy give you a lot of different angles and textures to experiment with. Queer- and trans-owned company Cute Little Fuckers makes a wide range of gender-inclusive products, all of which are adorable-looking, but this frilly little starfish might just be the standout. You want the toy to be a part of the experience, not the entire focus of the experience. Be sure to remind your partner how sexy they are and how much you love their penis/vulva/body. The last thing you want to bring home to a nervous partner is some scary, veiny, Rabbit vibrator with a million spinning beads and a realistic penis-head.

Cleaning is especially important when you have used your vibrator with a partner, or when it may have touched your anus. It’s also important to read the directions of the vibrator before using it. Don’t insert vibrators anally if the vibrator is not meant for anal insertion. Vibrators may also be helpful for people who have low libido (“sex drive”), anorgasmia (a condition where a person cannot reach orgasm) viberators, motor or sensory disabilities, or conditions that prevent vaginal penetration.